READER MAIL: My Inte...

To My Savvy Sisters, Some times we lose our way, we stumble, we fall, then just as we think it’s all over, someone comes along and with only a few words…picks us up and points us in the right direction. As an ‘older’ female, many woman have crossed my path and at some...

Don’t Let Their Silence, Silence You

When we’re going after our goals, we are often motivated by the cheering on the sidelines. Our parents, our friends and random strangers can come along and provoke that extra boost of energy that we need to continue to move forward in the form of compliments, pep talks and funding for our dreams. But what happens when you’ve been running the race toward your dream and all of sudden, no one is there to offer you a pat on the back, to cheer you on or to bail you out? What do you do when all of your loving fans and friends and family have moved on to focus on their own goals? What do you do when you ask for help and no one...

How NOT To Handle Re...

You’re hurting because someone you really like doesn’t like you back. I understand. We’ve all been there. You’ve been rejected and it stings worse than having a toothache. You don’t really know how to handle all of the pain you’re feeling right now and your...

PERFECTION- According To Beyonce Aug24

PERFECTION- Accordin...

Beyonce. The word is a proper noun and a statement. It is a statement of perfection. As perfect as a clear glass window. But why is Beyonce’s name linked to perfection? How does Beyonce’s life and lifestyle represent what today’s society equates to a woman’s...

Why Kissing Is The S...

Before we are old enough to make the move to engaging in sexual intercourse, we begin our tender intimate interactions with kissing. For some reason, once we become adults we forget that kissing was once our primary form of intimacy. Kissing is the same damn thing as having intercourse. Your...

VICTORIOUS: The Saw ...

VICTORIOUS- Is a series of stories written by women who have overcome obstacles and were strengthened by them. Not only do these courageous women share their stories with us, they detail how they overcame so that those who are seeking can become overcomers too.     Name: Natalia...

If You Want To Achie...

No one has the responsibility to become great during their lifetime. You can live a completely satisfying life without recognition or applause. We all have the capacity to shine during our lifetime and the truth is we will all experience a moment when the thing we excel in is celebrated or...

How to Survive: Leav...

There is no time to place the blame or berate yourself for not being strong enough to do it sooner. Right now, at this moment you have decided to leave an abusive relationship and I am going to try to prepare you for this journey as best as I can. You can do this. Follow these steps. 1....

REVIEW: Psychic Jude in Los Angeles Jul28

REVIEW: Psychic Jude...

While out on a date this past Friday evening, I strolled past Psychic Jude on the Santa Monica Pier. I love psychics and believe wholeheartedly in the ability to hear, see and feel information that is not gleaned through natural means. I believe everyone has this ability to some degree yet...

ADVICE: Everyone Bul...

Te-Erika, I have a huge problem. I am 22yrs old and I am very lonely. I do believe, it is only right to take a good hard look at myself. I do a lot of self reflection, and I have recently came to the conclusion that it is impossible for me to make good friends or even associates. I believe...

You Don’t Have...

This is for the women who call themselves savvy because they know certain shortcuts to help make ends meet. This is for the good hearted souls who believe that this is a dog eat dog world and the smartest dog will take the biggest bite. Please allow me for just one moment to share with a...

Live In a Multi-Mill...

While on your way to building a great life for yourself, you may want to get a taste of it right now. How can you do that? Try becoming a Home Manager for a staging company. A staging company adds the live in look to homes that are on the market to be sold. They also have home managers to...

You Are Not A Sinner Jul18

You Are Not A Sinner

Do you believe that you were born a sinner? Who taught you that? Why would they teach you such a thing? It is very likely that the person who taught you that you are a sinner is simply repeating what was taught to them. For some reason, through the ages, people began to believe that the only...

How To Avoid The Fri...

What women (and some men) don’t understand about relationships is – sometimes giving your all to people who have not shown they deserve it, isn’t such a good thing. Of course we all want to release ourselves and to fully engage in that love feeling without abandon. But, to...