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Hello Te-Ericka,
I suffer from depression, anxiety, social anxiety and low self esteem (yea, a lot). I have been in my current relationship for almost 10 years and recently we had a huge emotional and physical fight were we exchanged harsh words, blows and actions. As I looked back on our “relationship” I realized that he never accepted me in HIS world. There aren’t any friends we visit together, we don’t go out, we have small talk unless it’s about something he’s interested in. It feels like he’s ashamed of me. I use to constantly ask why we don’t go anywhere or why doesn’t he formally introduce me at events or gatherings. I’ve always felt like I put in the most effort to hold us together. Things a man is suppose to do around the house I do, I deal with the kids (8,6 and 15months) alone while he’s sitting on the couch sleep. He works a part-time job and im unemployed. So I take care of the kids, home and errands. When I asked it he’s ashamed of me in public he didn’t reply. I am a attractive woman with a fairly nice body but I guess my low self esteem overpowers my looks and it makes me unattractive to him I’m assuming. But I still love him I know i dont need to be with him. I’m just stuck because I have absolutely no friends, none. And the little family I do have rather see me go thru this and gossip. Te-Ericka help please!!!