This is my women’s empowerment blog and I have invested years of work trying to empower women to go after their dreams, navigate life’s trickiest circumstances, become entrepreneurs and stop being fearful about life transitions. My hope is to offer women the permission they need to be completely FREE to be who they REALLY are and live their lives according to their own standards.
So many women (and men) are shamed into believing that being sexual or asking for what they want is unlady-like and improper. That is not true. You don’t have to be ashamed of what arouses you. You are a human being and your sexual needs matter. You are allowed to enjoy yourself sexually without feeling badly about it. As long as you are making the decision to enjoy what turns you on, you have full power to do whatever it is that you like, outside of hurting others.
Be honest with yourself. Let go of those stereotypes that hold you back from being who you really are. In keeping with my agenda of fully empowering you in all areas of your life, today I am going to share some of my kinkiest sexual desires that I have only shared with a few people. I hope that by revealing some of my most deviant sexual desires, you would be open to accept yours too.
I like dating couples.
I love spending nights out like this. Sharing in your love is amazing!
Going on a date with a couple is the best thing ever. Sitting there with two adults who rationally want to add to their relationship thrills me like nothing else. I have been on several dates with couples but later found that we were incompatible for other reasons yet, the feeling of being open and being attracted to both really excites me. Being cared for and pampered by a loving couple and witnessing and being a part of their love is something I would love to experience before I die.
I am emotionally and sexually attracted to gay men.
Your fearlessness to be who you really are arouses me!
Ever since I was younger, the men I thought were hot were feminine men. I think they are hot! I don’t know why it happened but even the 5th grade cutie I had a crush on is now completely gay. When I meet them I have a respect for them, their emotional range, their honesty with who they are. I have no sexual desire to bed them although I do feel tingly when they are around. Most of the men I find myself physically drawn to are gay or bi sexual.
I love having my feet worshiped.
When you suck my toes you make my knees weak.
When a man kneels at my feet and kisses them, sucks and licks them, I feel like I am floating in outerspace.
I often fantasize about being a Mistress (the other woman).
Thank you for a beautiful weekend. Take care of yourself and your wife. See you next month, Boo.
Although I never imagine myself as a wife (that role seems boring to me) I often fantasize about being the Mistress to a powerful wealthy man. I would never tell anyone, never try to blackmail him, never try to come in between him and his wife. I want him to stay with her and keep his family happy, but I also want his play time and fun time to be with me.
I love watching women get spanked.
Harder! Faster! She deserves it!
I was at a BDSM Dungeon once and I was fortunate enough to watch a man spank a woman. That woman was one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen in my life. As I watched her wince and wriggle under his hand, I was mesmerized. I felt like she had been bad and needed to be punished and she deserved every lick she got. It was amazing!
I want to spoil a woman (and be spoiled too).
My love language is GIFTS and Acts of Service.
I love women, period. But it’s not always in a sexual way. In fact, I rarely touch women, or date them, I just look, smile and say Hi. I’m not ready to be with any woman because I am not in the position to treat her the way I believe she deserves. My ultimate fantasy with a woman is to be able to spoil her with gifts, money and support. I want her to be a sweetheart who appreciates my taking complete care of her and showing my love through making sure every need she has is met. I think I have that fantasy because the idea of receiving the same treatment arouses me more than anything.
Food turns me on.
If it’s really love, you’ll cook for me.
I am sexually aroused by the sight and taste of food. It has to be food that I did not prepare, handed to me on a plate. I enjoy the colors, textures and tastes and my ultimate sexual fantasy involves someone blindfolding me and feeding different foods with different tastes and textures. Afterwards, I will eat them up too!
I am a cuckquean.
Do you think she’s cute? I do too. Go get her and tell me all about it.
If I were to ever have a relationship with a man, it would have to be one where he sleeps with other women with my knowledge. Whether I get to watch or not is irrelevant as long as I get to hear the details and if he truly loves me, he’ll call me her name. So far, if I mention this fantasy to men, they think I am weird and are turned off by it.
Whatever you like, own it. Accept it. Don’t be ashamed of it. Find it. I promise there is someone out there who is thirsting to experience everything that you fantasize about.
I really enjoyed the one about the toes. I have a serious foot fetish. But then again I’m a Pisces. We understand things like that.
man..if only I could meet a cuckquean. I love having a partner at home, one that I can truly be open with, and emotionally committed, but damn if it doesn’t turn me on to think about being with other women and telling her all about it. Finding a woman with a compatible desire is such a challenge, though.
Your honesty and willingness to be so open with your ‘kinky secrets’ is refreshing. I wish you all the luck in finding the one or ones who can fulfill you as you deserve. I like to read about other people’s experiences in the BDSM world, to which I was a part of in my younger years. (41 now) So much was open to me then and I wish people would allow themselves to feel what they so desire without feeling like something negative.