FemDom: Why Every Woman Should Dominate Her Relationship



Female supremacy.

Sounds like a scary term for radical feminists who hate men. Nothing could be further from the truth according to Elise Sutton, the often debated and elusive firecracker of the BDSM world who teaches couples how to actively engage in a dynamic she calls- Female Led Relationships.

What is a female led relationship? It is a romantic relationship where both parties are NOT equal and men willingly admit their inferiority and defer to the woman’s will. They both enjoy this dynamic as she uses her intellect and feminine power to lead the relationship toward success. The woman should dominate her relationship if it is to become a relationship of pleasure and progress.

Elise Sutton offered me the opportunity to learn more about the unique relationship model she presents in her website Female Superiority.Com.  ~ Te-Erika

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Do you believe all women have a dominant side to their personalities?

I view dominance, when it comes to relationships, as more of a mindset and an attitude than a personality trait. We are what we think we are. I know a lot of women that are quiet, reserved and rather laid-back who are the dominant partner in their marriage. So to me, dominance has nothing to do with temperament but it has everything to do with attitude. Therefore, I believe that any woman can assume the dominant role in her marriage or any personal relationship. And furthermore, I believe women should be the dominant partner within male/female relationships. Why? Because women are best equipped biologically and intellectually to be the head of the household.

Over the centuries, society has mistaken the softness and the gentleness of women for weakness and submission. Likewise, society has mistaken the aggressiveness and the macho ways of men for strength. But by in large, men are only stronger physically. Women possess the real strength, which is intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Unfortunately, most women do not realize this due to being programmed by patriarchal institutions that teach women are the weaker sex. However, we live in a day where knowledge abounds and studies have shown that women are in fact biologically and intellectually superior to men.

In my book, “Female Domination” I devote an entire chapter to the superiority of women. I cite academic research that demonstrates women are intellectually superior to men. For example, The Scientific Assembly and Annual Meeting of the Radiological Society of North America did a study that showed that while the male brain is, on average, approximately ten percent larger than the female brain, women actually have a larger corpus callosum, 55.4 percent vs. 50.8 in men.

Men listen with only one side of their brains, while women use both. Thus women do better in memory tests and women have better language and communication skills. Women have excelled in the college classroom thus almost 60% of all college degrees have been earned by women over the past decade.

Biologically, women have better senses (smell, touch, taste, and sight). Women tolerate pain the best. Pound for pound, women are in fact stronger thus men are physically stronger only because of their overall size advantage. Women have greater flexibility and endurance. Women, as a rule, eat healthier. Girls mature faster than boys. Women are less susceptible to most diseases and women live longer. The research is clear, men and women are not equal and women are not the weaker sex.

I was out in front of this going back to the 1980’s when I first discussed how society is slowly and methodically evolving from male dominance to female dominance, and it is very satisfying to see so many today reaching a similar conclusion. I have in my private collection over 500 articles written in the past ten years that talk about the superiority of women and how it’s becoming a woman’s world. Articles with such titles as: “The End of Men” (Atlantic Weekly), “It’s a Woman’s World, the phasing out of men” (National Review), and “The incredible shrinking Y (chromosome)” (New York Times).

Women have become the main decision makers within marriages as more and more women are in charge of the checkbooks and the bank accounts. Women are becoming the main breadwinners in many families, and even in families where the husband has a higher income it is the wife who makes the financial decision.

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I also believe women are sexually dominant by nature. Again, when I say “dominant” I do not necessarily mean aggressive. While more women are choosing to be more sexually aggressive with their male partners, some dominant women prefer to be sexually passive in bed with a man. Be that as it may, the woman who understands how males and females are sexually designed will be able to take control in the bedroom using her natural feminine power.

Men are often led by their lower heads and the smart woman is the woman who learns how to utilize the male sex drive to her advantage. Too many women become victims of the male sex drive instead of taking control of it via the power Nature has bestowed on the female gender. And then there is also the biology of the female orgasm vs. the male orgasm, which is a fascinating study itself. I often tease my husband that sex was designed for the woman’s pleasure, not the man’s pleasure, and the male orgasm can never measure up to the intensity and pleasure of a woman’s orgasm(s) once she comes into her sexual prime.

So all of these reasons are why the female should be the dominant partner. It really doesn’t equate to aggressiveness, although the University of Michigan recently did a study that showed that estrogen is more of a power fuel than testosterone.

Why is it beneficial for women to recognize these traits?

I believe a female-led relationship makes for a happy relationship. Too many people strive for a 50/50 relationship and then wonder why life is so stressful. A 50/50 relationship sounds good in theory, after all we should all strive for equality. But 50/50 means there is no decision maker and everything must be negotiated. That doesn’t work because at the end of day, someone must yield their opinion and their wants to the other person’s opinion and wants. There must be a hierarchy in any structure, be it a corporation, a business, the military, the government, the Church, you name it, there always has to be authority, else there is chaos.

The female contains the attributes best fitted to be in authority within a marriage or a male/
female relationship. Women are the gender with the womb, the child-bearers, the life-givers, thus the nurturers and the gender best able to see the big picture and make decisions for the collective good. Women are by nature more kind-hearted. Combine this with the biological and intellectual strengths of the female gender, and it is foolish for any woman to surrender control of her life over to a man. 50/50 is better than male dominance but female dominance is best of all as it is able to bring harmony to a relationship.

Why would a man want to be a part of a female led relationship?

In many ways, men are further along in their desire to be dominated by women than women are in their desire to be the dominant gender. However, this common male desire usually has its incubation in the sexual realm. I remember a survey from the 1990’s where the number one male sexual fantasy was the fantasy to be sexually dominated by a woman. And this common male desire correlates with the explosion of the profession of the Dominatrix that we saw in the 1990’s and 2000’s. Men could not get their female partners to dominate them sexually, so they sought out the professional Dominatrix. Back in 2005 I did research using nothing but the Internet and I recorded over 10,000 women who had websites advertising their services for professional domination. Think about that? And it all wasn’t just about sex. Many Dominatrices offered physical domination, domestic domination, forced feminization, financial domination, sexual domination, humiliation, and other forms of controlling a paying male client.

Why do so many men want to be dominated by women?

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